Mommy of two

I am now entering my 30th week of my second pregnancy. A lot of people are asking me how this pregnancy differs from my first. Well the pregnancy itself hasn't felt very different, apart from increased aches and pains. It's more the experience that feels different. I experience a lot of mommy-guilt and more mental... Continue Reading →

Female blame

Since the dawn of the written word, the faltering of the male species has been credited to the female existence. Nevermind the common sensibility in attributing the male decision-making process to morals. Them females is evil! Let's look at the depiction of sirens, for example. A whole ship-load of unsuspecting, fine sailors, is irrevocably drawn... Continue Reading →

The Scariest moments

One of the most frightening thoughts that can creep into your mind as a parent is the thought of something bad happening to your child. My mother has always said "I wish it could be me" whenever I've been sick. I cannot express how deeply and sincerely I understand this expression now. This last Monday... Continue Reading →

Multiple Me’s

I don't remember where I read or heard it.. but someone once told me that some people believe there are multiple versions of ourselves existing in different planes and dimensions at the same time. That we are existing in multiple universes yet are inevitably linked to each other. I was told that this is a... Continue Reading →

My Mommy Resolution

We've officially celebrated my son's first Christmas! December has been the most exhausting thing I've gone through this year besides birthing my child. I'm not even talking about the gift shopping and wrapping. I mean like.. all the damn December events! We had, literally, an event every Friday, Saturday and Sunday up until Christmas. By... Continue Reading →

Oh, you wanna talk about Mothers…

Gather round boys and girls. Today we're gonna talk about something called "Mind your own damn business and nobody gets hurt." When it comes to being a Mom, you learn really quickly who your friends are.. and better yet, who your enemies are. All of a sudden, you become a target for people to aim... Continue Reading →

4 Months

Oliver is 4 months old now! What the heck, man. One moment this kid's lying in my arms, the size of a tiny football... the next he's this butterball who will stare you down with an attitude comparable to Miranda Priestly. I cannot understand or express the incredulous scale that my heart now measures to.... Continue Reading →

Quarter of a year

My baby is now 3 months old. It feels like a lifetime ago since we brought him home from the hospital. A lifetime ago and yet he seemed to grow up in the blink of an eye. When did he change from a little bean staring at lights to this small boy who makes eye... Continue Reading →

Be humble or be humbled.

There's no denying I can be one arrogant piece of work sometimes. There are times when I have the pride of a lion and the self-awareness of a 200lb lapdog. I can unintentionally come off as a know-it-all. When I realize that my head doesn't fit through the door frame, I humble myself by remembering... Continue Reading →


Oliver is now officially 2 months old. I haven't had a chance to take his 2-month photo yet because he's been fighting a fever. He received his first set of vaccinations this past Tuesday. The doctor had let us know to expect a fever in the upcoming days and informed us it's normal and to... Continue Reading →

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